第2部分

請關閉瀏覽器的閱讀/暢讀/小說模式並且關閉廣告遮蔽過濾功能，避免出現內容無法顯示或者段落錯亂。

；　and　your　own　good　sense　and　observation　will　teach　you　more　of　it　than　I　can。“Do　as　you　would　be　done　by”　is　the　surest　method　that　I　know　of　；　and　probably　the　same　things　in　you　will　please　others。　If　you　are　pleased　with　the　plaisance　and　attention　of　others　to　your　humors；　your　tastes；　or　your　weaknesses；　depend　upon　it；　the　same　plaisance　and　attention　on　your　part　to　theirs　will　equally　please　them。　Take　the　tone　of　the　pany　that　you　are　in；　and　do　not　pretend　to　give　it；　be　serious；　gay；　or　even　trifling；　as　you　find　the　present　humor　of　the　pany；　this　is　an　attention　due　from　every　individual　to　the　majority。　Do　not　tell　stories　in　pany；　there　is　nothing　more　tedious　and　disagreeable；　if　by　chance　you　know　a　very　short　story；　and　exceedingly　applicable　to　the　present　subject　of　conversation；　tell　it　in　as　few　words　as　possible；　and　even　then；　throw　out　that　you　do　not　love　to　tell　stories；　but　that　the　shortness　of　it　tempted　you。　。　想看書來

切斯特菲爾德勳爵（3）

Of　all　things；　banish　the　egotism　out　of　your　conversation；　and　never　think　of　entertaining　people　with　your　own　personal　concerns　or　private　affairs；　though　they　are　interesting　to　you；　they　are　tedious　and　impertinent　to　everybody　else；　besides　that；　one　cannot　keep　one's　own　private　affairs　too　secret。　Whatever　you　think　your　own　excellencies　may　be；　do　not　affectedly　display　them　in　pany；　nor　labor；　as　many　people　do；　to　give　that　turn　to　the　conversation；　which　may　supply　you　with　an　opportunity　of　exhibiting　them。　If　they　are　real；　they　will　infallibly　be　discovered；　without　your　pointing　them　out　yourself；　and　with　much　more　advantage。　Never　maintain　an　argument　with　heat　and　clamor；　though　you　think　or　know　yourself　to　be　in　the　right；　but　give　your　opinions　modestly　and　coolly；　which　is　the　o